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Family and friends converge to laud
Bilal’s Incredible Feat
Story & photos Girish Modi
Coming to think of it - in every parent’s life there are three
distinct occasions that they cherish the most – when the child
is born, when the child graduates from high school and when the
child enters wedlock.
Each year hundreds of thousands of second generation children of
South-Asian communities of Indians, Pakistanis and Bangladeshis
graduate from schools around the country and make their parents
proud. Some of the students excel with ‘A’ grades and some of
them win Spelling Bee contests on the way.
But most of these accomplishments are commonplace and pale into
insignificance
when compared with the extraordinary feat of boy named Bilal,
whose parents Zia and Yasmin Rehman had migrated to Atlanta area
some 30 years ago. They have five promising children – two sons
and three daughters.
To the disconnected outsiders, their family may look like any
other and nothing uncommon. But strangely, none except some of
his close relatives and classmates know about the shortcoming of
their younger son Bilal – at least until last night.
Bilal is physically disabled and mentally retarded right from
his childhood. Their family celebrated on June 11th his
high school graduation along with 300 guests at the Monarch
Banquet Hall in Duluth. It was indeed a moment of rapturous
delight for Bilal’s parents and siblings and a moment of
disbelief to many guests.
The program started with the customary introduction of each
family member followed by the traditional cutting of cake. The
highlight of the celebrations was Bilal being blessed by his
nonagenarian grandmother, who had specially flown in from
Pakistan.
Each family member showered encomiums on Bilal for his
extraordinary accomplishment and expressed their solidarity. In
a voice choked with emotion, his mother told the guests how
formidable a task it was for the whole family to continually
support Bilal during these 17 long years. She fervently wished
no family should experience the type of ordeals they had
undergone all these years.
Bilal’s special education teacher of Gwinnett High School came
early to present a special karate belt to Bilal but could not
stay on to partake in the celebration because of prior
commitment. The teacher hailed Bilal as an intelligent student
who could grasp lessons quickly and he also evinced keen
interest in all kinds of extra-curricular activities including
sporting events.
A sumptuous dinner was followed by an entertaining musical
program. Mahuva Mukherjee sang a few old Lata Mangeshker’s songs
and Ali Asani sang a couple of Mukesh’s hits and Mehndi Hasan’s
ghazals.
Ajaz Naqvi sprang a surprise by singing a couple of Rafi’s songs
and Renu Bakshi accompanied by her husband sang a couple of
songs recapturing the memorable era of K. L. Saigal and Kursheed.
Aslam Pervez, a well-known community leader, who is still
recuperating from his surgery, was the emcee.
Bilal’s rare achievement reminds one of a deaf and dumb girl
(played brilliantly by Rani Mukherji) in the movie “Black”. She,
through indefatigable hard work and dogged determination and
steadfastly supported by her teacher (played by Amitabh Bachchan)
realizes her dreams. Bilal is set to replicate the story of the
dumb girl and will successively render remarkable feats.
Congrats Bilal – you are going to be the future beacon light to
a lot of similarly disabled children!
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